tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post6529714675561511965..comments2023-09-15T08:20:32.589-05:00Comments on semi-fertile....: Oh, the humanity!wifeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15488549394090924411noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-24462429612813088762010-10-12T19:02:24.362-05:002010-10-12T19:02:24.362-05:00I gotta say that's why I havent told a soul (o...I gotta say that's why I havent told a soul (other than my partner and Docs) about our 4 losses, people are too often obnoxious...but then, I miss out on the moments like you had with your Terrible. In my experience its the Terribles in life who have more damn heart than any of the so-called intellectuals anyway! xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-77638217249579116962010-01-27T19:10:17.691-06:002010-01-27T19:10:17.691-06:00Serendipity - so true that the people you think yo...Serendipity - so true that the people you think you can count on often surprise you. I guess that's one of the "good" things about this journey - it forces people to show their true colors.wifeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15488549394090924411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-35977881319604313752010-01-26T16:53:28.553-06:002010-01-26T16:53:28.553-06:00I love that. It's always so nice to find peop...I love that. It's always so nice to find people that are just 'real.' No pretenses, no pretending to be somthing you're not... no guitar strumming, lol. I'm glad you found a true friend.<br /><br />ICLWBig Mama Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497834006248871553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-84852183386076830852010-01-26T05:35:35.929-06:002010-01-26T05:35:35.929-06:00I love people, I love how they surprise you, how t...I love people, I love how they surprise you, how the ones that you thought you could count on often will dissapoint and the ones you expect nothing from will often be the ones that come through in the end.<br /><br />How great for you and hubby to have found such a friend :)Serendipityhttp://www.exploringchaos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-79433545984436600722010-01-26T01:12:26.305-06:002010-01-26T01:12:26.305-06:00I love this! It is rare to find a girlfriend who ...I love this! It is rare to find a girlfriend who "gets" infertility, let alone a male friend. <br /><br />I hate that those women made you feel that way, but I am glad that your friend's true colors came out. What a guy! Very heartwarming.Lori LeRoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01981773036545324499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-827129359328633192010-01-25T21:15:04.660-06:002010-01-25T21:15:04.660-06:00Isn't it amazing how sometimes you make some o...Isn't it amazing how sometimes you make some of the strongest friendships in the most unlikely situations?<br />I am so glad that you can truly call him your friend too.Carlihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00550362674375740757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-5025587016027292222010-01-25T19:17:31.497-06:002010-01-25T19:17:31.497-06:00(that deleted post was me...sorry, I was logged in...(that deleted post was me...sorry, I was logged into the wrong account).<br /><br />That's really awesome that your husband, and YOU, have found such a wonderful and supporting friend in T: You're very lucky.<br /><br />ICLWJessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-29514835139879980282010-01-25T19:15:51.596-06:002010-01-25T19:15:51.596-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.The Market Place Walton, NYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13037092459963725749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-54202610113697996432010-01-25T19:09:14.354-06:002010-01-25T19:09:14.354-06:00I think one of the unexpected blessings of my expe...I think one of the unexpected blessings of my experience with pregnancy loss is the way people surprise me. Those who I think will be there for me aren't, and those who I would never in a million years think would care end up showing the most compassion. I'm glad this man showed you who he really is and cared enough to show a little tenderness.Mama Fiercehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193265149964480794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-27234736456328894302010-01-25T11:05:22.060-06:002010-01-25T11:05:22.060-06:00Isn't it funny how the twists and turns of lif...Isn't it funny how the twists and turns of life bring you unexpected friendship? I'm glad he showed his big softy side to you last night when you needed it. :)jenicinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16361606793108116475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-47369481295962160732010-01-25T10:54:20.166-06:002010-01-25T10:54:20.166-06:00Wow...you just never know do you! People continue ...Wow...you just never know do you! People continue to amaze me in good and BAD ways. Promise I have not forgot about you. Still in a weird place.flmgodoghttp://sugardonor.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-67350132843867431002010-01-25T08:15:01.650-06:002010-01-25T08:15:01.650-06:00Good for you. There have been a bunch of times wh...Good for you. There have been a bunch of times when I've wanted to tell people off a little bit and haven't. The thing is, this will make an impression on those ladies and maybe they'll actually THINK TWICE in the future before they talk about a subject of which they have no first-hand knowledge.<br /><br />I'm glad as well that Terrible exceeded your expectations. If one of the women had been the first person out, you could write it off as her feeling like she had to do it, but in this case, you know he did it out of genuine concern and friendship. Rock on with your bad self, Terrible.LuckyOncehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07778768854314345726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-14778565385247103442010-01-25T02:24:25.667-06:002010-01-25T02:24:25.667-06:00People are full of surprises. I am so glad you hav...People are full of surprises. I am so glad you have a great friend and a good social circle.Andiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173628683150350210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-25118541805845975132010-01-24T20:47:53.763-06:002010-01-24T20:47:53.763-06:00I'm so glad you found a new true friend. That ...I'm so glad you found a new true friend. That is awesome that you find a group of people that you fit in with and feel comfortable with.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-55779930881522236722010-01-24T20:47:00.426-06:002010-01-24T20:47:00.426-06:00Kelly - he would make you think that he is terribl...Kelly - he would make you think that he is terrible, until you get to know him and figure out that underneath he's really just a sweet guy. And I think he would freak the fuck out if he knew that I outed his kindness on my blog (if he even knew I had a blog!) :)wifeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15488549394090924411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-83238776594852081462010-01-24T20:00:26.749-06:002010-01-24T20:00:26.749-06:00I sure thought this was going to take a different ...I sure thought this was going to take a different turn, giving that you nicknamed him "Terrible". :)<br /><br />It's interesting how people evolve. I would say that for most of my life I had the type of friends that you described in the beginning of your post. That's now changed quite a bit and although I'm not into MMA (not that there's anything wrong with that!), I feel like I'm able to let my hair down more in our social circle.<br /><br />I'm sorry that you were uncomfortable and so upset. It sure does sound like you have a true friend in Terrible though.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08507118457609696378noreply@blogger.com