tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post7045920601740915987..comments2023-09-15T08:20:32.589-05:00Comments on semi-fertile....: mirror imagewifeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15488549394090924411noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-61418175741162792642010-04-15T13:30:15.348-05:002010-04-15T13:30:15.348-05:00Sometimes I wish I could go back to being niave an...Sometimes I wish I could go back to being niave and not knowing the heartache from a pg loss and IF. It is so hard to be around people who can easily have kids or haven't been trying. I hope your office goes back to its previously "baby hostile" environment soon.Brownirishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05968155365863127002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-56349039789759944892010-04-13T23:51:59.163-05:002010-04-13T23:51:59.163-05:00I really like the previous comment, very wise word...I really like the previous comment, very wise words.<br /><br />I love your term "utesaurus". You are brilliant. I don't know how you come up with this stuff.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02338130051182407335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5736556300599496415.post-70088324864532414592010-04-13T22:23:12.028-05:002010-04-13T22:23:12.028-05:00You're right, those *other* people do exist in...You're right, those *other* people do exist in a separate universe of sorts. Some of the stuff they say to comfort us, like "you're still young" they actually believe. I know how unbelievably hard it is not to feel like a cesspool of grief and hating yourself for not being a bigger/better person. The thing is though, that people who go through challenges in life, like yours, deserve a little bit of understanding. We're understanding that old people are rude because well, sometimes they are just sick and tired and out of patience. We're understanding that people who have cancer are angry and sometimes hate the whole world. Although this isn't identical, you do deserve that. So if you can't stop those pitying feelings, that's OK. The fact that you even desire to be a different person-someone who can be happy for a new mum without having had their own baby first-is a good thing. But you don't have to fake it if you just can't. You have been through hell and that, my friend, deserves props just for the fact that you are still standing.<br />LovesAnxiousMummyto3https://www.blogger.com/profile/13249605078664682478noreply@blogger.com