Sunday, May 9, 2010


No cards.
No flowers.
No "Happy Mother's Day" greetings.
No hugs.
No mention of my dead babies.

I am invisible, unloved, marginalized, forgotten.

Mother's Day can suck it.


  1. I am so with you on that one. Every year I just feel worse and worse. I feel so much more alone because no one understands how much it hurts to be infertile when they all have had no problem having children.

  2. Amen. It can suck rotten eggs.

  3. You are not invisible. I'm so sorry that no-one IRL remembered your losses and how awful this day gets for you but just remember you do mean a lot to me. I hate that you're hurting and I can't be there to give you a hug.xx

  4. I am so sorry this happened to you. No matter what anyone else says or does, you are a mother. Those babies of yours know it and they the only ones who matter where this is concerned.

    I do feel your pain and agree it can suck. Oh, and screw Hallmark for not making a "Even though your babies have died, you're still a mother" card.

  5. You are not alone, you are not forgotten. A big hug to you.

  6. Exact same experience here. Sorry you had a rough day too.

  7. oh man... mothers day does suck for us, doesn't it? you're not alone, although that is no consolation to you, i'm sure. i wish we could be in another "club" together.